Safe Zone dialog

I attended the Safe Zone dialog meeting the week before spring break. I was not sure what exactly to expect as this was a required meeting. I would not have been surprised to see and hear some disrespectful behavior, from both sides. I realize a faculty facilitator was on hand to stop any problems that would arise but this was an open forum so that all views could be expressed freely. The panel could have exhibited an attitude of “in your face” with the questions. How dare we question their lifestyle? It is their life and we should accept them just as they accept us. The participants could have exhibited similar attitudes. Why do I have to spend my class time listening to this? Why don’t these people get over it and live like they are supposed to? Any number of questions and concerns could have been shared by both sides. However, I was grateful that both sides offered their stories and gave and accepted the criticism well. The dialog was informative and productive. Even at UAB, number 3 in diversity, these young people have experienced discrimination. It is really sad that our school has to offer “safe places” on campus. I would hope that any one would be safe anywhere on campus at any time.